Understand this: if another man can get close to your woman, the man is not the problem—she is. The fact that another man feels so welcomed reflects her behavior behind your back. You should never compete with another man for a woman’s affection. If she is allowing another man to get that close, it’s a clear sign that she is not respecting you or the relationship. So, don’t waste your energy fighting him or trying to compete, because he is not the issue; your woman is. If she truly valued you, no one else would feel comfortable trying to invade your space.
Never Beg for Love.
Whatever you do, don’t beg for love or attention from your pattern because one-sided love is a recipe for disaster in any relationship. No “man or woman” who truly loves and cares about you will be too busy for you.
Never Date a Materialistic Woman.
Materialistic women will always claim they aren’t, that they just like to dress nicely, have nice things, and maintain themselves like other women. They want the majority of things they observe being used by other women. However, they never acknowledge their materialism.
These ladies are not in search of love; they just want a guy who can maintain them at that moment. They can marry you for money or status, and they can dump you for someone they believe has more money or power than you. Don’t get me wrong. It’s a good thing to maintain your woman and shower her with all the good and fancy things.
Women love to be maintained, and a real man should take pride in maintaining his woman, but when a woman is materialistic, is a whole different ball game. She will never be satisfied with her man’s income. Her eyes are constantly turned outward in search of more. And when you fall in love with a woman like that, you’ll feel pressured to always please her without even realizing it.
Know when to say “No.”
Avoid saying “yes” to a woman too frequently; instead, say “no” when necessary. Women will always take that for granted. By always saying “yes” to their requests, you will think that you are civilized and in love, but in reality, she will perceive you as her fool.
Learn to say no; it’s healthy.
Never Show Your Weakness to A Woman
Never show your weakness to a woman; it may sound unromantic, but if you do, when she is ready, she is going to use it as an excuse against you or as a weapon to bring you down.
You may argue that “if you have a good woman, it is better to share everything with her”. Right, but how do you know she is a good woman? Until she meets someone who she believes is better and stronger than you, until someone with more money approaches her, or until you make an error or fail, and she still loves and prefers you more. That’s when you know you have a good woman. Until then, never tell your deep secret to a woman, and never show her your weakness, is senseless gambling.
Don’t tolerate any form of disrespect from a woman.
Some people may not agree with this. But the truth is, if you tolerate any form of disrespect from her, she will continue to disrespect you, even in front of your friends and family. She will have no regard for them. That will lead to an unhealthy relationship, which only you will suffer from.
Avoid anyone who doesn’t admit his or her wrong.
Avoid a lying Lady, they are more dangerous than a snake. Avoid a lying guy; they are criminals. Don’t lie to your lady, because any relationship built on lies and deception is already a failure.
Never Fight Over a Woman with Another Man.
If your woman is going out or secretly seeing someone else, don’t be mad at that person. Most guys are quickly prepared to fight and attack other men when they see them with their women. Don’t do that, please. Because the man won’t be there if your lady doesn’t want him, she is to be blamed.
How many men can you push away from your woman or fight off? You have to deal with your woman. You don’t have any problems with the men at all, but if you keep fighting over her with another man, one day she will join the other man to fight you. Believe me, that’s a fight you can’t win unless you have seven lives.
If your woman is honest, truly loves you, and respects you, she will be the first person to tell you if any man is harassing her. Only then will it be appropriate for you to confront that man.
Never allow a woman to pay your bill.
Regardless of how much she has. Pay your bills like a man. Even if she has the money to pay your bill, if you let your woman pay the bills, she’ll eventually get sick of you.
It is normal for a man to care for a woman without feeling tired or overwhelmed. However, a woman will get tired along the way if she continues to pay the bills, and if that occurs, believe me, all hell will break loose.
